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“Seeing” color is no more a problem than “seeing” height. Disrespect and discrimination solely based on melanin and offensive stereotypes are the real issue.
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69. I grew up on 2 Live Crew songs but knew not to twerk in restaurants ~ True Kitchen Kocktails restaurateur wants guests to stay in their seats
68. Meeting ‘others’: The other reason to go to college ~ Multiculturalism is the extra credit in your tuition rates
67. PODCAST: Rich black men, politics and ‘hostage’ votes ~ Will famous black men speaking out against presidential candidate Joe Biden help Trump win?
66. I’ll never wear weave but relaxers don’t bother me ~ Why I keep walking the straight-hair tight rope
65. Is social media going to ruin black ’90s sitcoms? ~ Twitter is making the teen version of me fight with my adult self
64. Newsroom editors can cripple or embrace reporters ~ Stories you want: Holding local and national news accountable
63. Don’t weigh in on positive black shows if you only support ratchet TV ~ How “The Photograph” supporters made me reevaluate my take on African-American entertainment
62. The most efficient way for black businesses to never succeed … is to let self-hate and self-doubt get in our way
61. Does My Editor Understand My Audience? ~ Know your marketing deal-breakers ahead of time
60. The Diversity Question All Graphic Designers Must Answer ~ Does this material match our target client base?
59. Retailers, hire minorities in management and mid-level positions ~ Why entry-level positions simply aren’t enough
58. When self-checkout feels more like racial profiling ~ Whether working or shopping, everyone black is not a thief
57. Store closings: Complex reaction to protesting versus looting ~ Protesters force retail America to speak up on social justice issues
56. BIPOC, we don’t have to be in competition ~ It’s OK to applaud one group while wanting more exposure for your own group
55. Black Santa has his ear to the street ~ What does Santa do the rest of the year?
54. The one piece of advice car salesmen often miss ~ Whether new money or old money, don’t treat people like they have no money
53. To white parents, one size does not fit all ~ Five tips for white parents trying to raise non-racist children
52. In 2023, pick anyone but Mayor Lori Lightfoot ~ Judging from Anjanette Young hidden video & onward, being a ‘first’ does not make her the ‘best’ political candidate
51. Scary factor: Sasha Obama and black boys with locks ~ Internalizing the intimidation factor hurts dark-skinned black men forever
50. Is Santa black? Or does it matter? ~ If kids ask the race question about Santa, what's your response?
49. Black people didn’t ask you to ‘save’ them ~ Why the savior complex is so exhausting to those who didn’t ask you to be
48. Why black women have mixed opinions on black men in interracial relationships ~ How my opinion went from indifference to frustration to acceptance
47. Know what FAST means, not just one sign of a stroke ~ Strokes are 2xs higher for black people
46. 10 ways to figure out if (s)he really has ‘a black friend’ ~ Note: May not apply for all black people, but it applies to enough
45. 48 hours after Biden wins, black women get shunned again — Eva Longoria, know your stats before you dismiss black women
44. When Pennsylvania and Georgia prove the black vote counts ~ And all the other Blue States, we love you, too
43. Is it ‘not realistic’ or just not in your world? ~ Please stop saying positive black films and TV are unrealistic
42. HBCU graduate: Trump assists with $85 million for HBCUs and I still despise him ~ Funding black colleges doesn’t change America’s history
41. The invisible visibility of black women and police ~ Roll the dice: Women and privilege, or black women and discrimination
40. Yelp is calling out racist businesses ~ As an Elite member of Yelp, this is applaud-worthy
39. Trump supporters should learn from O.J. Simpson supporters ~ Know when to shut up because your guy is so very guilty
38. Black book characters make black kids like me want to read more ~ Why Young, Black & Lit is onto something with its literature nonprofits
37. Yes, Millennials, the Holocaust actually happened ~ Almost 6 million Jews were killed in the Holocaust, but we’re taking selfies
36. When math class becomes a black history lesson ~ How to engage a distracted crowd of black students during the Black Lives Matter movement
35. If you’re not a minority, why are you so sure of your anti-racism tourism? ~ White people, please stop telling me to leave America to escape racism
34. Yes, I’m black. No, I don’t eat chicken. ~ Frustrating food complexities of African-Americans
33. Mixed emotions when black women call the cops on black men ~ Both groups are on the losing side when police show up, even for deck disputes
32. 62% of black women say dating has gotten harder ~ Scams, lies and physical risks are the top culprit to blame in dating woes
31. Chadwick Boseman’s acting resume could be your black history class ~ Virtual teachers, here’s your opportunity to teach what history books leave out
30. Black Lives Matter: The black heart for OkCupid members ~ Online dating site puts controversial topics front and center
29. Netflix gets it wrong again, cancels ‘Patriot Act’ ~ Who has a more valuable voice that fluidly connects African-Americans and Asians?
28. Black girls and Girl Scouts: It’s more than selling cookies ~ From girl’s guy to Girl Scout
27. Are your student’s poor grades due to boredom, laziness or racism? ~ SATs: The diversity argument that may improve a student’s grade
26. Why does your racism appear when the liquor does? ~ The real reason some of your black ‘friends’ and co-workers won’t party with you
25. You, as a minority, can relate to me — but know when you cross the line ~ The invisible line between Hispanics, black folks and racial slurs
24. Dear white people, your black colleagues aren’t required to date ~ Just because your co-workers are the same race does not mean they’re compatible
23. When a black inventor disguised himself as Native American ~ That other reason black folks say they have ‘Indian in my family’
22. Women of color, stop trying to change your hue in photos ~ The photo technician who knows you’re using skin bleachers
21. My first time celebrating Juneteenth was with Mos Def ~ Learning about Chicago’s Inner-City Muslim Action Network
20. Want to combat your prejudices? Expose yourself to ‘others’ ~ The German Shepherd question that explains my take on racism
19. The Black History Month party that made me remember the fine art of silence ~ Trump adds Juneteenth to his horrendous campaigning
18. My grandfather is not the only black birdwatcher I know of — anymore ~ Christian Cooper and Black Birders Week prove there are more
17. Coloring inside the lines with new shades of brown crayons ~ Black art teachers influence support for black artists
16. Andrew on ‘Insecure’ is Issa Rae’s middle finger to Cancel Culture ~ How we learned to love Andrew more than Molly
15. The Joe Biden outrage over ‘You Ain’t Black’ sounds suspicious ~ Pay attention to who is complaining before you shun Joe Biden
14. Dating black women: Interracial dating gone right and wrong ~ Step one: Stop talking about slavery at dinner
13. The ‘seat’ I don’t want at the resume table ~ Why hiding who you are on resumes will only get you jobs you hate
12. Black teachers, please don’t tear down your black students ~ Contrary to popular belief, words do hurt
11. White teachers, please stop judging your black students ~ The fine line between empathy, pity and casual racism in education
10. ‘Uncorked’: For black folks who love wine and Netflix ~ Can we get another round of ‘Uncorked’ comedy + drama films?
9. If Bloomberg wins, I write in another candidate ~ Why my first time being racially profiled put me in the #NeverBloomberg campaign
8. Why are you rating black churches on Yelp? ~ Should churches receive travel reviews?
7. Stop using the term ‘racist’ unless you’re sure it is ~ Empty accusations on race can make you lose all credibility
6. From childhood to adulthood: Simplest way to stop cultural appropriation ~ When imitation is more offensive than flattering
5. This black vegetarian is so tired of PETA ads ~ The 2020 Super Bowl ad from PETA that deserved a block from Fox Sports and the NFL
4. Harriet Tubman’s legacy made me lose a job ~ My proudest moment of being dismissed as an editor
3. ‘Stop acting light-skinned’ and other stupid colorism comments ~ Why black folks need to knock it off with skin color jokes
2. Stop doing these 5 things to your new black employees ~ I know you think it’s harmless, but it’s usually offensive
1. Why I filter new friends in this tense political world ~ The one thing Drake should’ve said about 'no new friends'
68. Meeting ‘others’: The other reason to go to college ~ Multiculturalism is the extra credit in your tuition rates
67. PODCAST: Rich black men, politics and ‘hostage’ votes ~ Will famous black men speaking out against presidential candidate Joe Biden help Trump win?
66. I’ll never wear weave but relaxers don’t bother me ~ Why I keep walking the straight-hair tight rope
65. Is social media going to ruin black ’90s sitcoms? ~ Twitter is making the teen version of me fight with my adult self
64. Newsroom editors can cripple or embrace reporters ~ Stories you want: Holding local and national news accountable
63. Don’t weigh in on positive black shows if you only support ratchet TV ~ How “The Photograph” supporters made me reevaluate my take on African-American entertainment
62. The most efficient way for black businesses to never succeed … is to let self-hate and self-doubt get in our way
61. Does My Editor Understand My Audience? ~ Know your marketing deal-breakers ahead of time
60. The Diversity Question All Graphic Designers Must Answer ~ Does this material match our target client base?
59. Retailers, hire minorities in management and mid-level positions ~ Why entry-level positions simply aren’t enough
58. When self-checkout feels more like racial profiling ~ Whether working or shopping, everyone black is not a thief
57. Store closings: Complex reaction to protesting versus looting ~ Protesters force retail America to speak up on social justice issues
56. BIPOC, we don’t have to be in competition ~ It’s OK to applaud one group while wanting more exposure for your own group
55. Black Santa has his ear to the street ~ What does Santa do the rest of the year?
54. The one piece of advice car salesmen often miss ~ Whether new money or old money, don’t treat people like they have no money
53. To white parents, one size does not fit all ~ Five tips for white parents trying to raise non-racist children
52. In 2023, pick anyone but Mayor Lori Lightfoot ~ Judging from Anjanette Young hidden video & onward, being a ‘first’ does not make her the ‘best’ political candidate
51. Scary factor: Sasha Obama and black boys with locks ~ Internalizing the intimidation factor hurts dark-skinned black men forever
50. Is Santa black? Or does it matter? ~ If kids ask the race question about Santa, what's your response?
49. Black people didn’t ask you to ‘save’ them ~ Why the savior complex is so exhausting to those who didn’t ask you to be
48. Why black women have mixed opinions on black men in interracial relationships ~ How my opinion went from indifference to frustration to acceptance
47. Know what FAST means, not just one sign of a stroke ~ Strokes are 2xs higher for black people
46. 10 ways to figure out if (s)he really has ‘a black friend’ ~ Note: May not apply for all black people, but it applies to enough
45. 48 hours after Biden wins, black women get shunned again — Eva Longoria, know your stats before you dismiss black women
44. When Pennsylvania and Georgia prove the black vote counts ~ And all the other Blue States, we love you, too
43. Is it ‘not realistic’ or just not in your world? ~ Please stop saying positive black films and TV are unrealistic
42. HBCU graduate: Trump assists with $85 million for HBCUs and I still despise him ~ Funding black colleges doesn’t change America’s history
41. The invisible visibility of black women and police ~ Roll the dice: Women and privilege, or black women and discrimination
40. Yelp is calling out racist businesses ~ As an Elite member of Yelp, this is applaud-worthy
39. Trump supporters should learn from O.J. Simpson supporters ~ Know when to shut up because your guy is so very guilty
38. Black book characters make black kids like me want to read more ~ Why Young, Black & Lit is onto something with its literature nonprofits
37. Yes, Millennials, the Holocaust actually happened ~ Almost 6 million Jews were killed in the Holocaust, but we’re taking selfies
36. When math class becomes a black history lesson ~ How to engage a distracted crowd of black students during the Black Lives Matter movement
35. If you’re not a minority, why are you so sure of your anti-racism tourism? ~ White people, please stop telling me to leave America to escape racism
34. Yes, I’m black. No, I don’t eat chicken. ~ Frustrating food complexities of African-Americans
33. Mixed emotions when black women call the cops on black men ~ Both groups are on the losing side when police show up, even for deck disputes
32. 62% of black women say dating has gotten harder ~ Scams, lies and physical risks are the top culprit to blame in dating woes
31. Chadwick Boseman’s acting resume could be your black history class ~ Virtual teachers, here’s your opportunity to teach what history books leave out
30. Black Lives Matter: The black heart for OkCupid members ~ Online dating site puts controversial topics front and center
29. Netflix gets it wrong again, cancels ‘Patriot Act’ ~ Who has a more valuable voice that fluidly connects African-Americans and Asians?
28. Black girls and Girl Scouts: It’s more than selling cookies ~ From girl’s guy to Girl Scout
27. Are your student’s poor grades due to boredom, laziness or racism? ~ SATs: The diversity argument that may improve a student’s grade
26. Why does your racism appear when the liquor does? ~ The real reason some of your black ‘friends’ and co-workers won’t party with you
25. You, as a minority, can relate to me — but know when you cross the line ~ The invisible line between Hispanics, black folks and racial slurs
24. Dear white people, your black colleagues aren’t required to date ~ Just because your co-workers are the same race does not mean they’re compatible
23. When a black inventor disguised himself as Native American ~ That other reason black folks say they have ‘Indian in my family’
22. Women of color, stop trying to change your hue in photos ~ The photo technician who knows you’re using skin bleachers
21. My first time celebrating Juneteenth was with Mos Def ~ Learning about Chicago’s Inner-City Muslim Action Network
20. Want to combat your prejudices? Expose yourself to ‘others’ ~ The German Shepherd question that explains my take on racism
19. The Black History Month party that made me remember the fine art of silence ~ Trump adds Juneteenth to his horrendous campaigning
18. My grandfather is not the only black birdwatcher I know of — anymore ~ Christian Cooper and Black Birders Week prove there are more
17. Coloring inside the lines with new shades of brown crayons ~ Black art teachers influence support for black artists
16. Andrew on ‘Insecure’ is Issa Rae’s middle finger to Cancel Culture ~ How we learned to love Andrew more than Molly
15. The Joe Biden outrage over ‘You Ain’t Black’ sounds suspicious ~ Pay attention to who is complaining before you shun Joe Biden
14. Dating black women: Interracial dating gone right and wrong ~ Step one: Stop talking about slavery at dinner
13. The ‘seat’ I don’t want at the resume table ~ Why hiding who you are on resumes will only get you jobs you hate
12. Black teachers, please don’t tear down your black students ~ Contrary to popular belief, words do hurt
11. White teachers, please stop judging your black students ~ The fine line between empathy, pity and casual racism in education
10. ‘Uncorked’: For black folks who love wine and Netflix ~ Can we get another round of ‘Uncorked’ comedy + drama films?
9. If Bloomberg wins, I write in another candidate ~ Why my first time being racially profiled put me in the #NeverBloomberg campaign
8. Why are you rating black churches on Yelp? ~ Should churches receive travel reviews?
7. Stop using the term ‘racist’ unless you’re sure it is ~ Empty accusations on race can make you lose all credibility
6. From childhood to adulthood: Simplest way to stop cultural appropriation ~ When imitation is more offensive than flattering
5. This black vegetarian is so tired of PETA ads ~ The 2020 Super Bowl ad from PETA that deserved a block from Fox Sports and the NFL
4. Harriet Tubman’s legacy made me lose a job ~ My proudest moment of being dismissed as an editor
3. ‘Stop acting light-skinned’ and other stupid colorism comments ~ Why black folks need to knock it off with skin color jokes
2. Stop doing these 5 things to your new black employees ~ I know you think it’s harmless, but it’s usually offensive
1. Why I filter new friends in this tense political world ~ The one thing Drake should’ve said about 'no new friends'