"Keep smiling. It makes everyone wonder what you have been up to." (That's a sign that used to be in my maternal grandmother's home and I took it when she passed. I used to enjoy reading it and wondering what made her want to hang it up. Me? I know exactly why I have it.) Anyway, on to the ten for this week and the next:

1. Friends/family/co-workers who read my e-mails: I type 81 wpm so it's nothing for me to send a long e-mail. I've heard complaints, compliments and jokes about it. One guy I used to talk to said he'd slip into a bubble bath with a glass of wine and read my e-mails. An old friend/past co-worker used to tell me she'd read my "Bible" messages (meaning as long as the Bible). My mother cracks jokes about printing the e-mails out. Some folks complain about them, and so I try to keep my messages shorter for them (because if there's one thing I know how to do, it's to ignore people as quickly as they want to ignore me -- and when you start getting one word/sentence long responses from me, I truly just don't like you). But back to my brighter note: I asked a couple of buddies of mine about a guy situation in a three-part e-mail. Yes, those e-mails were lengthy, as in a page or two. Not only did they read them within 24-36 hours, I got long messages back. I love it when people are as interested in my life as I am theirs and make time to hear what's going through my mind. It takes me a long time to open up to people about my personal life (trust me, nothing on this blog is something I wouldn't say to a ballroom full of people), so if I share something with you and ask for your advice, I really want it. And I appreciate that they took time out of their busy days to see what was going on in mine. At the risk of being cliche and quoting rap music, *in my Jay-Z voice* "You could've been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me." And you better believe it's mutual. I read every single e-mail, Amazon comment, Tweet, letter, card and anything else that's sent my way. Hell, I even go through press releases from publicists who don't bother to make sure I'm the right person to send them to and reply back. If you sent it to me, you obviously felt like I should want to know so I'll respect that wish every time.

2) Behind the Music (Nas): I am relentlessly critical about his persistence with using the n-word, but I am still very much a fan. I remember seeing him perform live at DePaul University, and it only cost me $5. I have owned all of his CDs minus the untitled one (you already know what the name of it originally was). I had the beat for "Dr. Knockboot" as my voicemail in college for a couple months and used to rap that song (and Jay-Z's "Big Pimpin'" all the time). While watching "Behind the Music" last night (twice), I looked at him and Kelis and thought how friggin' cute they were together. I wish those two would've worked out because it was cool seeing how happy they looked, and I cracked up about him saying "gold tooth for no reason." I remember going back and forth with a high school friend about whether "Ether" was necessary and him blasting "One Mic" while we were headed to a party. Plus I still love and respect that song "Bridging the Gap." There are so few hip-hop songs dedicated to fatherhood, and I liked seeing him and his father showing off their talents. Okay, and yes, he's gorgeous (with and without the chipped tooth).


 
 
It's that time again to count down five things that made me smile this past week so here we go!

1. Betty White's "Off Their Rockers": I am all about "The Golden Girls." I TIVO that show and watch it whenever I'm relaxing at home and/or while I'm doing my hair before work. Those are my TV friends right up there with "Living Single" and a couple folks from "A Different World." But Betty White's new prank show entertains me far more. I can't get enough of watching these seniors play jokes on their younger victims. I rewound the old guy skateboarding at least five times and took the DVD to my grandfather's house so he could see it. Damn DVD wouldn't play in his DVD player, but I'll be back again because I want him to see it.

2. Jarod's front on "Real Housewives of Atlanta": The other guys who did the foot and hand massages and fed women strawberries were all well and good. But that's regular stuff. This Kenyan guy Jarod stepped into Kandi's shop with the kind of sexy that just doesn't show up everyday. I was honestly stunned looking at this man with his shirt off. He's got a young face and looks a little bashful, but he took that red shirt off and I paused my television. I rewound him turning around at least five times. I've seen handsome guys before, but this is that strong raw appeal. *round of applause for Jarod's parents for creating him and to whatever workout equipment he uses*

3. Jarod's back on "Real Housewives of Atlanta": I don't care that I mentioned him in #2. He deserves a separate entry just for how he takes care of the back of himself. Yes, his pants could've hid his boxer briefs a little, but they sat at a tasteful angle. Give this man a standing ovation!

 
 
Update: Sunday (March 11)

Man, I'm totally behind on doing these weekly blogs but still determined to do them. Even if I'm the only one that reads them (not true considering I see my web visits per day, thanks for visiting!), it's therapeutic to think of things that make me smile. There have just been so many high and low moments in the past month so some will be from February and others from March.

1) Talking to my godfather, Elvin: I spent two hours on the phone with him today. There is 100% chance I'm going to hear some great stories, laugh more often than not and then we'll go into deep conversations about society and probably touch on finances. I can talk to him about anything, and he'll give me the raw, uncut version. Crazy about him (and his southern accent when he says "Monnie").

2) Watching Hugh Laurie on the deaf teen episode for music vibrations: The "House" scene was to find out if the guy who had a hearing impairment could somehow feel better with music. Now normally people would think House would come in with classical music or maybe some random pop tune. Nope, he comes in with his cane, a big boombox and is dancing to Public Enemy's "Fight the Power." I died. I loved that scene so much that I rewound it to watch it again and again.
 
 
I've got some family members who I think would be great if they ever stepped foot onstage at a comedy event. In the meantime, I enjoy spending time with them, especially my parents and my grandfather. I've got a couple buddies who keep me laughing, too.

Here are a few things that were said to make me laugh/smile on Valentine's Day and a couple of gifts, too.

1. My grandfather's latest creation: There is never a dull moment with this guy. You leave him alone long enough and he's going to do something strange. I just so happened to glance at his dining room table to see he'd done this only a few minutes after I walked out of the room.


2. My grandfather's V-day quote: "You can have your valentine as long as you'll still be my punkin." (That's just plain sweet! He calls me "Da Punkin" all the time since birth.)

3. My grandfather on why he won't snitch on our conversations: "Hey, when we talk, what you say is Vegas. Whatever's done in Las Vegas stays in Las Vegas." (Gotta love Grandad for being the one I can vent to or get his opinion, except when it comes to relationships. He tries to play it way too safe with that. He'll listen but when it comes time for me to ask him what he thinks I should do, his usual response is: "You're not going to have me giving you bad advice. I need to hear his side, too. I don't know him. If he came in here and plunked me upside the head, I still wouldn't know we were talking about him." (BTW, I would strongly suggest not plunking my grandfather on the head. If you do, he will revert back to his war days and knock you halfway across the room. :-) And after he's done, turn around, CAUSE HERE I COME!)
 
 
The reason I liked doing the "Five things I'm digging right now" was because it forced me to find the "bright side" of something. I need to do that more often and thought that was a cool way of doing it (original idea courtesy of Andy Cohen). So in the same spirit of it and since I'm done with that for 2011, I'm going to do a list of 365 things I've been digging all year. They're not in order, just the first things that pop into my head that I liked the entire year. (I started today as of 2:30 p.m. I finished on 12/31/11 at 10:38 p.m., in between running errands. HAPPY (almost) NEW YEAR!)

BOOKS
1. "The John Carlos Story" by John Carlos
2. "Is Marriage for White People? How the African American Marriage Decline Affects Everyone" by Ralph Richard Banks
3. "The Vampire Diaries" (Stefan's Diaries only)
4. "There Are No Children Here: The Story of Two Boys Growing Up in The Other America" by Alex Kotlowitz
5. "The Conversation" by Hill Harper
6. "Michelle Obama: The First Lady in Photographs" by Deborah Willis and Emily Bernard
7. "Change for a Twenty" (I genuinely enjoy my own books)
8. "Round Trip" (I've said repeatedly it's better than "Change for a Twenty")
9. "Love Your Life" by The Oprah Magazine

CHICAGO (SURROUNDING AREA)
1. Looking out the window on the #147 CTA bus at Lake Michigan
2. Walking the four-mile trail at Skokie Northshore Channel
3. Walking the two-mile trail at Lincolnwood Channel Runne Park
4. Quench! restaurant on 79th (Pretty inside with a seating area)
5. Chi Tung
6. Chicago Public Library
7. The New 400 Theater
8. RCN (cable)

EYE CANDY
1. Ian Somerhalder
2. Taylor Lautner (Facial hair compliments him; his athleticism makes him breathtaking)
3. Idris Elba (No matter how many times "Daddy's Little Girls" comes on, I watch it)
4. T.I.
5. Chris Brown (He's growing up to be really handsome)
6. Morris Chestnut
7. Justin Timberlake
8. Brad Paisley (Dated a guy who looked exactly like a light-skinned black version of him; started heavily listening to country music from November to December)
9. Paul Walker
10. Alex Meraz (very good-looking in person)
11. Ian Ziering (Didn't pay much attention to him on "90210" but when I saw him at Comic Con last year I was so surprised at how gorgeous he is. Age has done him well!)
12. Trey Songz (Super friendly and as attractive in person as he is on his videos)
13. Joseph Morgan (Klaus from "The Vampire Diaries")
14. The guy who lost his balance on the Red Line and fell on me (woke me RIGHT up, and his outfit was impeccable; I couldn't stop checking him out)
15. Drake
16. Richard Gere (He looks better with age, don't know how he does it)
17. Tone Kapone (Don't listen to the radio much but I saw him at the 2012 Real Men Cook and the Sprite StepOff a couple years ago. He's really cute and I never knew what he looked like before.)
18. Q-Tip
19. Evan Ross
20. Obie Trice (He's underrated in the hip-hop game and my gawd, THOSE LIPS! Every video I see with him in it, I look at his lips 75% of the time. He's kiss-worthy.)

FASHION
1. Multi-colored shell bracelet from Queen Ka'ahumanu Center in Maui
2. Ralph Lauren Polo Jeans Co. orange fleece
3. Light yellow zip-up sweater
4. Gray suede/sweater heel boots
5. Brown suede/sweater heel boots
6. Black sweater flat boots
7. Black cape with gray lining
8. Baby blue top with brown afro woman silhouette
9. Multi-brown shades wooden bracelet from Maui
10. Black hematite bracelet from The African Store (located in Ford City)
11. Kohl's shopping (When there's a coupon, I never leave empty handed.)
12. NY & CO shopping (Sale or not, I never leave empty handed.)

FOOD
1. Archer Farms salt and vinegar chips
2. Thai tofu fried rice from China Hut
3. Kona Hawaiian Blend Micro-Roasted Coffee (drank it every morning)
4. Gardein stuffed turk'y
5. Gardein Mandarin orange crispy chick'n
6. Chocolate martinis at Olive Garden
7. Salad dressing from Olive Garden
8. Mushroom ravioli from Olive Garden
9. Fresh bread from Olive Garden
10. Water with a splash of lemon juice
11. Avocado slices with tomato slices
12. Tortilla chips
13. Granola, fruit and yogurt plate from IHOP
14. Hot water cornbread
15. Black eyed peas (vegetarian)
16. Collard greens (vegetarian)
17. Macaroni and cheese (my mother's)
18. Dried apricots
19. Archer Farms dark chocolate cocoa mix
20. Open Nature's Dark Chocolate Hazelnut Heaven (granola mix)
21. Green tea
22. Brown tea with lemon juice and honey
23. Grapefruit juice
24. Grapefruits
25. Red apples
26. Strawberries
27. Bananas
28. Strawberry banana smoothies
29. McDonald's iced coffee (light ice, light sugar)
30. McDonald's Filet o' Fish (the only fish I can handle eating for Omega 3)
31. Starbucks hot chocolate
32. Argo Tea iced coffee
33. Corn on the cob
34. Mashed potatoes from Ruby Tuesday's
35. Simply Asia Spring Noodles bowl
36. Watermelon
37. Green grapes
38. Red grapes

FRAGRANCES
1. Fergie's "Outspoken"
2. Lady Speed Stick "Fresh Infusions"
3. Cool Water
4. Victoria's Secret "Heavenly" (original fragrance)

HAIR
1. Vitale Olive Oil relaxer
2. Parnevu leave-in conditioner
3. Silk wrap caps
4. Pantene shampoo for women of color
5. Pantene conditioner for women of color
6. Distinctly Basics by Rachel Rose black ponytail holders
7. My haircut from Donte's on 9/17/2011 (thanks Francine!)

HEALTH
1. Doing Beyonce's "Let's Move" routine for 30 days
2. Swimming laps in the Maui Seaside Hotel pool
3. Renewing my membership and working out at Bally Total Fitness (now L.A. Fitness)
4. The results from my yearly physical (everything is tip-top, minus weight)
5. Logging at least four workouts per week on TeamBeachBody
6. Julie's Health Club blogs
7. Chicago Tribune's Health page
8. LA Times Booster Shots
9. Updating @BlackHealthNews on Twitter
10. "Mistletoe may help kiss away some ills" article (fascinating because I only knot about it for kissing)
11. "Muscling past myths" (It forces me to get up more at work)

HOME APPLIANCES
1. Breville BEW600XL Hot Wok
2. Brother MFC-440CN multi-printer
3. Insignia 26" LCD TV 720P
4. Full-size bed
5. All 18 pillows on my bed
6. Labrador Retriever comforter with pillows on my bed

HOME DECOR
1. Looking at Halloween decorations
2. Black couple embracing and kissing (painting above my bed)
3. Ebony cover of Marvin Gaye about "black cool"
4. N'Digo cover of Pres. Barack Obama (Nov. 13-2008)
5. Mos Def photograph of him sticking out his tongue while in a car driver's seat
6. Wall photograph jewelry box

MEMORIES
1. Watching my 99-year-old Aunt Marguerite open her Christmas photo calendar
2. Solo travel to Maui to do what I wanted to do 100% of the time
3. Spa day in Maui (pedicure, manicure, head/back/shoulder/foot massage)
4. Going to Chi Tung with Grandad
5. Getting the surprise fruit basket on Christmas Eve delivered from my godfather
6. Having my mother home this Christmas, healthy and happy
7. Posing for photograph on the porch with Faith nuzzling my chin
8. Posing for photograph on the porch with Faith "smiling" and leaning by my face
9. Crying laughing about the health club story with Darcel
10. Kendell calling me up at work to invite me to his high school graduation
11. Watching Kendell walk across the stage for graduation (super proud of him)
12. Hanging with Mom, Dad and Grandad at Real Men Cook for Father's Day
13. Going to the midnight release of "Twilight: Breaking Dawn" with my mom
14. Walking Faith (I do it 99% of the time when I'm at my parents' house)
15. Cracking jokes and chatting about entertainment with Yonnie and Kendell
16. Seeing what's new and strange in the world of Crosley (sp?)
17. Chit-chatting with Mom in Olive Garden
18. Hanging with Mom at Ruby Tuesday's and checking out our forgetful waiter
19. Photograph of my mother and my godfather trying to look hip-hop (LMAO)
20. Close-up photograph of Grandad and I at Real Men Cook
21. Photograph of my mother and I on my 29th birthday with her leaning on me
22. Seeing my op/ed tattoo piece on page 2 of the Chicago Tribune
23. Posing for a bunch of family photos with my brother, mother, grandfather and father on Thanksgiving 2011
24. Getting a 365-day dog calendar from my mother, who knows I really want a dog
25. Mild flirting at the health club (may not amount to anything but it was inspiration to work out when I first joined)
26. Clearing snow away with a bucket because I don't own a shovel (my grandfather loves this story)
27. Working from home for two days after Feb. 2, 2011 snowstorm
28. My grandfather and father dancing in front of a crowd at Real Men Cook 2011
29. Fifth tattoo, fourth cover-up, love my roses (thanks Bobby Sax!)
30. Dragging Fernie around to take the holiday photo for the Chicago Tribune
31. Xephon adding me as a Facebook friend (very flattered by that)
32. Dad calling me up to tell me how he wouldn't participate in Earth Hour
33. Me taking Dad's call (#32) as an invitation to bumrush their house and unplug everything; he and I talked for an hour and a half in the dark
34. Going through my letter box, reading all the letters and cards I got from family and friends while I was in college

MOVIES
1. "Hachi"
2. "Eight Below"
3. "No Strings Attached"
4. "Friends With Benefits"
5. "Always Outnumbered, Always Outgunned"
6. "Tongue Untied" Wanda Sykes comedy
7. "Higher Learning"
8. "Daddy's Little Girls"
9. "Something New"
10. "10 Things I Hate About You"
11. "New Moon"
12. "Twilight"
13: "The Twilight Saga: Eclipse"
14. "Sleepers"
15. "The Client"
16. "Runaway Bride"
17. "Iron Man"
18. "Iron Man 2"
19. "Transformers"
20. "Jumping the Broom"
21. "Never Say Never" (The shoveling scene is my favorite; Justin Bieber is eye candy but I just felt too much like a cougar putting him there until he's legal)
22. "Happy New Year, Charlie Brown"
23. "Losers"
24. "Gran Torino"
25. "Beats, Rhymes & Life: The Travels of A Tribe Called Quest"

MUSIC (singles and artists)
1. "Prototype" by Andre 3000
2. "Cockiness" by Rihanna
3. Rihanna's "Loud" CD
4. "The Noose" by Tech N9Ne
5. The "99 Problems" remix in the movie "No Strings Attached"
6. Mos Def (everything)
7. "In the Morning" by Drake and J. Cole
8. "Can't Get Enough" by J. Cole
9. "5 o' clock" by T-Pain
10. "Nuthin'" by T-Pain
11. "Default Picture" by T-Pain
12. "Momma Told Me" by Crystal Waters
13. "Pretty Little Heart" by Robin Thicke
14. "Sexy and I Know It" by LMFAO
15. "Birthday Cake" by Rihanna
16. "Take Care" by Drake
17. "Stay" by Tyrese
18. "Syllables" by Eminem, Jay-Z, 50 Cent
19. Obie Trice (everything)
20. Crystal Waters (everything)
21. Chris Brown (everything)
22. Rihanna (everything)
23. "Love Calls" by Kem
24. "I Can't Stop Loving You" by Kem
25. "I Like It" by Debarge family
26. "Perfect Day" by Jim Jones
27. "Should've Kissed You" by Chris Brown
28. "Dancing in the Dark" by Dev
29. "Otis" by Jay-Z and Kanye West
30. "Marry You" by Bruno Mars
31. "Someone to Love Me" by Mary J. Blige, Diddy
32. "All This Love" by Debarge
33. "Love Me in a Special Way" by Debarge
34. "Say Something" by Timbaland
35. Drake (everything)
36. "Complicated" by Robin Thicke
37. "Lost Without You" by Robin Thicke
38. "Pretty Young Thing" by Michael Jackson
39. "Strangers in Moscow" by Michael Jackson
40. "I'm Only Human" by Luther Vandross
41. "Love Her Like She's Leavin'" by Brad Paisley
42. "Somethin' 'Bout a Truck" by Kip Moore
43. Afroflow (everything)
44. "Woo" by Erykah Badu
45. "Bag Lady" by Erykah Badu (Dr. Dre remix)
46. Big Daddy Kane (everything)
47. "Got My Country On" by Chris Cagle
48. "Don't Worry, Be Happy" by Bobby McFerrin
49. "Like We Never Said Goodbye" by Clay Walker
50. "Better Than I Used to Be" by Tim McGraw
51. "Radio" by Musiq Soulchild
52. "Smack That" by Akon
53. "Back to Life" by Andrea Lewis
54. "Run the World" by Beyonce
55. "Motivation" by Kelly Rowland
56. "Deuces" by Chris Brown
57. "Look at Me Now" by Chris Brown
58. "Fallin' Down" by Chris Brown
59. "Cruisin'" by D'Angelo
60. "Sergeant Louise" by Donnell Jones
61. "Marvin's Room" by Drake
62. "Doing it Wrong" by Drake
63. "Show Me a Good Time" by Drake
64. "Find Your Love" by Drake
65. "Mahogany" by Eric B. and Rakim
66. "Head to Toe" by Eric Roberson
67. "Softest Lips" by Eric Roberson
68. "U R the One" by Mos Def
69. "The Panties" by Mos Def
70. "Kiss Me on My Neck" by Erykah Badu
71. "I Want You" by Erykah Badu
72. "Collard Greens and Cornbread" by Fantasia
73. "1, 2, 3" by Field Mob
74. "Best Night of My Life" by Jamie Foxx
75. "Yep Dat's Me" by Jamie Foxx
76. "She Got Her Own" by Jamie Foxx and Ne-Yo
77. Andre 3000 (everything)
78. "Raindrops" by Jeremih
79. "Leavin'" by Jesse McCartney
80. "Ordinary People" by John Legend
81. "I Ain't Going Out" by Jon B.
82. "Pretty Girl" by Jon B.
83. "What Goes Around Comes Around" by Justin Timberlake
84. "Runaway" by Kanye West
85. "Where Would I Be" by Kindred Family
86. "Paris Tokyo" by Lupe Fiasco
87. "The Show Goes On" by Lupe Fiasco
88. "Human Nature" by Michael Jackson
89. "Butterflies" by Michael Jackson
90. "Smile" by Justin Bieber

NEWS
1. Reading Clarence Page's column "Page's Page"
2. Reading Jon Yates' "What's Your Problem?"

OBJECTS
1. My birthday card from Dad, who wrote his own entries on the inside about the truth and myths of being 30
2. Mumble stuffed penguin (from "Happy Feet 2")
3. Charlie Brown musical stuffed decoration
4. Elementary school graduation photos of Xakir (super handsome nephew!)

PEOPLE/MANNERISMS
1. People who hold doors for the people behind them
2. Women who think nothing of complimenting other women (no cattiness)
3. Men who know "hello/how are you?" go much further than pick-up lines
4. People who try to learn how to pronounce my name and don't give me unsolicited nicknames
5. People who say "let's go to lunch" and follow through with their plans to do so

POLITICS
1. The troops coming home from Iraq
2. First Lady Michelle Obama's "Let's Move" campaign
3. The Obamas' new family photo

SKIN CARE
1. Aloe vera (everything from first-aid products to lotion)
2. Cocoa butter (everything from lotion to soap)
3. Vaseline cocoa butter lotion
4. Vaseline cocoa butter petroleum jelly
5. Suave cocoa butter with shea
6. Palmer's cocoa butter formula with Vitamin E

TECHNOLOGY
1. AmazonBasics 3-Button USB Wired Mouse
2. Smoke Silicone Skin case for my mp3 player
3. Insignia Pilot mp3 player
4. Kevin Hart's YouTube Channel
5. Following @OchoCinco on Twitter
6. TiVo
7. TiVo's website to record stuff when I'm not at home

TELEVISION
1. "Whitney"
2. "The Vampire Diaries"
3. Timbaland special on E! Entertainment
4. Kathy Griffin's reenactment of her dog eating a used condom (hilarious!)
5. BET Hip Hop performance with Heavy D doing "Nuttin' But Love"
6. Somaya and X.O. scenes on "Love & Hip-Hop"
7. Open mic night with Kyle doing scat music on "Living Single"
8. Rudy meeting Stanley on "The Cosby Show"
9. "The New Adventures of Old Christine"
10. The "you lost to a girl" scene in "The New Adventures of Old Christine"

TRAVEL
1. Maui Mall (walked over there every day for five days)
2. Maui Seaside Hotel
3. West Maui Mountains
4. Riding the Sugar Cane Train in Maui
5. Writing for Chicago Tribune's Taking Off blog
6. O'Hare Airport (never appreciated how great it is until I compared it to LAX)
7. Maroon blankets that American Airlines give you for flying to Hawaii
8. American Airlines for giving me an extra 2 days free of charge after late flight
9. Yotel's Times Square in-airport cabins for overnight sleeping (cool idea, haven't used them but would have that time I had to sleep overnight in LAX, click here for more)
10. Celebrity travel with Sinbad
11. Celebrity travel with Larenz Tate
12. Updating the Trib's Hawaii travel story gallery

TURN-ONS (physical)
1. Goatees
2. Caesar haircuts
3. Khakis/jeans that are loose but sit on the waist
4. Shades of smooth brown complexions (from buttercup to dark chocolate)
5. Clean fingernails
6. Direct eye contact
7. Carefree, white teeth smiles
8. Slim-to-medium muscular build
9. Tall in height (although I've dated guys between 5'8 and 5'11 who were just as attractive)
11. Holding a book

TURN-ONS (mental)
1. Bookworms
2. Voters (in all elections, not just presidential)
3. Direct requests for dates (no b.s.-ing around)
4. Making money only in a legal way
5. Paying bills on time
6. Having your own place, with your name on the lease/mortgage

WEBSITES:
1. SoulVegFolk.com
2. BlackMusicTube.com
3. TeamBeachBody.com
4. AOL's Listening Party
5. AOL Radio
6. Chicago Tribune
7. Luis Gomez's "About Last Night"
8. Twitter
9. Jaehakim.com

WORK
1. Meeting the MoD team (some of the Breaking News team are very entertaining to work with)
2. Working with Colin (He's one of the coolest bosses I've ever had; he means business but he "gets" my personality)
3. Keeping in touch with my old bosses Sonja and Ruth (two other bosses I have nothing but good things to say about and still touch bases with to this day)
4. Going to lunch with Darcel (great person to vent and laugh with)
5. Going to lunch with Fernie (she's always got jokes)
6. Argo Tea Iced Coffee from Charlie to thank me for training him (nice surprise)
7. Training Charlie and Lauren when they were new (MoD team members both really cool people)
8. Trading dog stories with Molly (both of us are hardcore dog lovers)
9. Working with Danielle G. (She's always helpful since the day I started)
10. Working with Mike Z. (If I need a photo, he's got it. One of my favorite folks at the Trib for being so easy to work with.)
11. Chatting with Pam (Easy to work with, even easier to chat about everything from family to why we hate pants with words on the butt)
12. Creating and updating the "Relationship & Sex News Gallery" (Interesting and educational topic that people need to be informed about, especially STIs/STDs)
13. Working with Gilda Squire of Gilda Squire Media Relations again. She is one of the most professional publicists I've met, and I've worked with quite a few publicists.

YOUTUBE VIDEOS
1. "Puppy Christmas"
2. The last two boys on "I Told My Kids I Ate All Their Halloween Candy"
3. Halloween light show to "Party Rock"
4. "Rethink Breast Cancer presents 'Your Man Reminder'"
5. Ian Somerhalder with Aisha Tyler on "The Late Late Show"
6. Tahj Mowry singing John Legend's "Ordinary People"
7. Tahj Mowry singing Michael Jackson's "Human Nature"
 
 
I'm back with my new favs. I missed last week so this is once again my "Five things I'm digging right now" times two.

1. "In the morning" by Drake and J-Cole: I like listening to this song every morning. J-Cole can get kinda vulgar on his album, but I like the edited version of his music and that groggy voice Drake is doing is sexy as all hell. I listen to this every morning on my way to work at least three times straight.

2. Rihanna's new CD "Talk That Talk": I could do without Jay-Z's verse, but other than that, this is a solid CD and so was her last one. I'm a late fan, but she's very talented. It just took me some time to get used to her voice.

3. Quench!: I don't recall whether I've mentioned them before, but I'm a loyal supporter of this restaurant chain. I go whenever I'm on the south side, and I went to the 79th street location for the first time. It's nice, and you can sit down. The workers are always polite, too. I highly recommend the soy veggie wrap (spicy). The veggie melt is good, too.
 
 
Confession: I haven't been back in Chicago for 24 hours (flight landed at 6 a.m., today and I'm already restless and ready to go back to Hawaii). It's not just the 33-degree weather or avoiding loud people on the el, but Maui is just such a positive place to be. It's impossible to be in a bad mood there. Immediate relaxation. So my "5 things I'm digging right now" will be combined for last week, this week and next week as "15 things I'm digging right now." They'll also all be about the past six days I spent in Hawaii.

1. Kona Hawaiian Blend Micro-Roasted Coffee: I always tell people I can't drink coffee. It's not that I don't like it, but it gives me really bad heartburn. However, I just wanted to try a little bit of everything so I checked out the free coffee in my hotel room and loved it. I didn't get heartburn once. This stuff was so good that I was drinking it three and four times per day everyday. I usually drink a mug of tea everyday, but this coffee won me over. I'm pondering on getting a coffeemaker just so I can continue drinking this.

2. Maui Bus: I avoid tourists every time I go on vacation. The reason is that when I'm around tourists they spend more time comparing their hometown to the location they're in or glued together. I'd rather hang out with locals and get the real feel of the area. Due to a late flight, I lost a day on my car rental and I just decided to not keep the car rental reservation at all. I couldn't have been happier because it forced me to walk around, get to know the neighborhood and ride the bus to see areas I'd have never seen if I had to concentrate on driving. I didn't miss paying $4.44 per gallon for gas, and $2 for an all-day bus pass is far better!
 
 
Chicago weather is killing me and I have a cold I'm living in Bally's trying to sweat out. Other than that, life is good. I'm behind on this rundown so I'm combining two weeks of "Five things I'm digging right now."

1. One of the front desk attendants at Bally's: He's a cutie. I come to work out, but it doesn't hurt that he's usually at the front desk and nice on the eyes. He knows my name without me telling him, and that's always a bonus plus he's a friendly guy. I dig good customer service.

2. Breast cancer video with hot guys: I first saw this video while updating a Booster Shots blog for the Trib. I felt super weird watching it at work, but my neighbor behind me had no shame about watching it and showing another co-worker so then I had to see it. I love this video.

 
 
It's been a minute and a whole lot of experiences within this past month so I'm just now making time to do the "Five things I'm digging right now." Since it's been three weeks, it'll be 15.

1) Cosi's Hummus & Veggie sandwich: I used to go to Cosi's when I temped for a real estate company, but I hadn't been there in years. This past summer, I was a "guide" for a Tribune intern and I took him to lunch at Cosi's. It made me remember how much I loved their bread. I got the sandwich and since then got it a few more times.

2) Tayari Jones' "Silver Sparrow": Check out my review on the Trib's site here.

3) Olive Garden salad dressing: Seriously, I like eating salad but the salad dressing they use is better than any I've ever tasted. While dining with my mother, I found out this past weekend that they sell it. Looks like they'll have two regular customers!
 
 
1. Whoopi Goldberg's "Is it just me? Or is it nuts out there?": I figured this book was going to be good because I like Whoopi. There were times when I leaned over a bench I was sitting on (during my workout walk) and just laughed. Hard. It was good to get a carefree laugh or two in while reading this. (I reviewed this book for the Trib, but it hasn't gone live yet.)

2. China Hut: I ignored the restaurant when it first popped up around my neighborhood, but since I refuse to go back into Loving Hut I needed another nearby restaurant for my lazy cooking days. I got crab rangoon (the only seafood I can still eat) and vegetable fried rice from there, and it was delicious. Maybe I'll stop asking my grandfather to take me to Chi Tung now that I found an Asian food restaurant around me that I actually like.